Campaign to help young people overcome controlling behaviors
A campaign was launched today (Thursday, December 2) with the message: “Before you see red, talk to someone instead. ”
The campaign will include targeted social media ads, aimed at highlighting the support available to young people to help them manage and tackle behaviors that hurt the people they love.
The campaign was developed by West Yorkshire Police, the Leeds Safeguarding Children Partnership and the West Yorkshire Combined Authority.
Temporary Deputy Police Chief Damien Miller said: “A lot of people – including victims and abusers – won’t think of a teenager lashing out at his parents or grandparents like domestic violence, but it can be.
“We know this type of offense is drastically underreported because, of course, people may be reluctant to report young family members to the police.
“We as the police do not want to unnecessarily criminalize children and adolescents either. What is clear, however, is that without help in addressing the underlying causes of violent and controlling behavior, it often continues into adulthood.
“The main purpose of this campaign is to encourage young people who are concerned about their behavior to seek help now.”
Deputy Mayor for Police and Crime Alison Lowe said:
“We want to support young people and their families, giving them the confidence to come forward and seek help from a specialist.
“It can be an especially difficult conversation to have, especially among those we love unconditionally, but we need to name it and work together to protect our young people.
“Prevention is better than cure, and we hope this joint campaign will shed light on this hidden problem, opening the right channels for families to get the help they need. ”
Leeds Safeguarding Children Partnership, Independent President of Safeguarding, Jasvinder Sanghera CBE, said:
“Adolescence victim of parental violence also has a serious impact on parents, young people and families at large and the consequences for all are devastating. I am a parent and I can only imagine this is one of the most isolating and scary situations.
“The parental instinct to love and support your child while being abused is one of the most conflicting and difficult situations. As for the child, there could be underlying emotional and mental health issues. It’s important to keep in mind that no child wants to behave in this way and scare those they love, and it’s important for families and teens to know that there is support available.
“There is no shame in asking for help to fight this abuse, because it will help not only you, but also those closest to you and especially future generations.”
There are a number of local and national organizations that can help and advise young people.
Anyone concerned about their behavior or that of anyone else should visit: www.westyorkshire.police.uk/TalkToSomeone for more information and contact details of the support available in their area.